With my husband Jeff, I wrote I Got A Divorce: A Christian’s Guide to Surviving Divorce, Recovering Your Heart, and Discovering New Beginnings—a book born from years of personal experience and reflection on how to walk through one of life’s most difficult seasons with grace and hope.

When we went through our own divorces (before we met each other), we searched desperately for a resource that understood both the pain we were experiencing and the faith we were trying to hold onto. We needed something practical, not preachy. Something honest, not judgmental. We couldn’t find it. The books we discovered either lectured us about theology or skipped over the spiritual questions entirely. So we decided to write the book we wish we’d had—a gentle, faith-filled companion for Christians navigating the reality of divorce.

I Got A Divorce walks you through three essential stages: Survival Mode (getting through the hardest days), Recovery Mode (learning to live again), and Thriving Mode (discovering that life can be good again). This isn’t a book about whether you should or shouldn’t divorce, and it’s not a legal guide. It’s a survival guide written by two people who understand your pain and know with certainty that God is with you in the middle of it. You’re not alone. This isn’t the end of your story. And yes, you will get through this.